Chapter 4 - History of Youth Work (Singapore)

Incidential to Intentional to Integration

During the 1960s, the youth movement started in Singapore through the various youth ministries Youth For Christ, Campus Crusades, Navigators, etc. which were predominantly para-church organisations.

The church then, was not ready for such intense youth work. As such, many released their youth to serve in these para-church groups. Then came the 80s where we saw big churches rise up in our landscape. They were able to organize themselves and began their targeting of the campus and youth (typically Pre U and Sec Sch) ministries. Of course in this turbulent period, parachurches and church groups were caught on each other toes; both trying to figure out what was best for the Kingdom of God.

By the 90s most medium to big size churches are able to establish their own unique bland of youth work in campuses and schools. This trend of church formed groups causes the parachurch to redefine their roles and mission.

I was first converted and followed up in a parachurch organsiation in the 80s. I shifted to serve in a local church in the 90s till today. But I still have fond friendships with many parachurch groups because we “grew” up through the processs of change.

Through my teaching ministry as well as interaction, I saw many wonderful changes and growth in the church youth groups.

I have seen how we have moved from doing youth work incidentially (i.e. because we had to rather than we wanted to) to intentional youth work (i.e. we want to). It was an era of exciting growth in the 80s-90s, seeing churches rising up to own the discipling of their youth. Since then, the churches have matured in their views of youth work, from taking a glorified baby sitting role to intentional discipleship. Many youth leaders and pastors have come forth through this change.

Yet I am sensing and seeing a new trend is arising. I believe we are about to see youth work moving from not just being intentional but to an integrated formation. Integration would be a key word for the next lap. Youth work, in the 21st century, cannot be done apart from the rest of the church ministries. It, together with the rest, must be integrated to the total church.

I will liken this to a normal growth process of a child. When they are younger, they are taught to master one or two skills. But as they mature, they are expected to be able to do it intentionally. Then the day will come when they need to be multi-tasking.

This is not to be misunderstood as from a specialist (like a doctor) to become a general practitioner – that would be regressing. Instead it is like being able to be both a specialists as well as a CEO at the same time. Yes, it would mean more demands on the church as well as church pastors. But we need to be so to ensure that the total body (the church) would harness the full potential of the BODY and not every parts doing their own things.
It is challenging and I have not seen a fully functional type yet. But I know that would be the reality in the near future for any church and church youth group to thrive.

May God grant us wisdom to do so.

Chapter 3 : Youths - Leaders of Today!

Often we hear these slogans, “Youths are the Leaders of Tomorrow!”, “Youths hold the key to tomorrow!” etc.

They are true and right. But often inherent to these slogans, we assume that youth could only make meaningful contribution to the society when they grow up! i.e. they can only start to lead when they are older, wiser, more mature etc.

No wonder we see youths not being challenged to rise up at all; especially those in churches!

In schools, a 15-yr-old is expected to lead a uniform group (eg Co-Curriculum Activities), run projects, execute plans. They are not treated as a liability! They are treated as an individual who is able to contribute. They are expected to model, lead the way, be trustworthy and demonstrate responsibility.

Yet, in churches, they are meant to be seen not heard. They are expected only to receive and learn. In most situations there is nothing structured or intentionally designed to engage them with their PRESENT abilities. What a pity!

Youths are often looked down in churches.

However, 1 Tim 4:12 says, "Let no one look down on your youthfulness, but rather in speech, conduct, love, faith and purity, show yourself an example of those who believe."

Even in the days of Timothy, the “habit” of belittling youth existed. Paul challenged Tim NOT to allow such perceptions to limit him. Rather, Tim must, through his life, model as an example to all who believed.

Youths are the leaders TODAY! We should not wait till they are older to engage them in meaningful contribution or service. We need to learn how to tap into the potential and energy within them and stretch them towards maturity.

Yes. They are youthful, immature and easily influenced. There is a limit to how much they can do. Hence there is a need to give to them age-appropriate means to disciple and deploy them.

Youths are the leaders TODAY! We need to allow God to show us how best to engage the 13-16, 16-20, 20-25….

Personally I have seen many youths being “discipled and deployed”. And they delivered what were expected of them. I mentioned that was done in Schools Co-Curriculum activities. I have also seen such examples in Community Service as well.

What could we learn from these examples of engaging youths as leaders today?
I believe there are several principles that we can learn and adapt into our church discipling programs for the youths.

Principle of Environmental Factors - Authority and Discipline (Guidance)
I choose the start with authority and discipline because young people need to know that there is a clear boundary. Unfortunately many grow up without a proper boundary system in their lives. They are used to do what they want, when they want. Apart from existing family systems which are cracking in many homes (Christian families included), schools are also failing in setting good boundary system due to workload, etc.

Thus, there is a great and urgent need to establish such environments from the start. An environment where boundaries are set up to respect authority and instill discipline is necessary for proper learning and growing to take place.

Principle of Affirming Culture - Award and Recognition (Motivation)
Environmental factor (external) and culture (internal).
We need to develop a healthy affirming culture. Notice the word “healthy”. We need to be affirming but our affirmation MUST be healthy lest it becomes mere flattery.
In many circles where affirmation is commonly practiced, I have found them to be human flattery (too much usage of superlative) more than affirmation.

What then is healthy affirming culture?
Firstly we need to know the purpose of Affirmation. It is to endorse, highlight, confirm the positive. Thus there is a need to define what is the positive action, gesture, attitude, etc. A mere statement ie “you are great” means nothing! You need to describe the part which makes you think that the person is great ie “Your selfless giving to the poor is great! I am touched.”

Secondly, we need to promote such affirming action. Youths need to know what is acceptable and what is not. Thus, promoting affirming action done by them is in itself an affirming act. In the process, we are also communicating our values as demonstrated in their actions. Common activities would be “end of camp appreciation” for the youth leaders. We use such moments to highlight what they have done well.

Thirdly, we need to redefine our culture. As in all things good, even good affirmation can erode due to neglect or overuse. Thus the need to revisit and reshape our culture. Culture is defined as the way we do things as a result of our values.

Principle of Meaning and Passion (Motivation)
How do we get the youths to stay connected and committed?
We need to help them to draw meaning from their actions. All of humanity is looking for meaning in life. We are such because God has created us for meaningful passion. We are created for Him. Thus, showing them how the outcome of their action contributes to LOVE (God is love) would spur them on.

Principle of Youth Development (Knowledge, Skills and Values)
For effective discipleship and deployment, we need to ensure that our youths are given the right knowledge and skills (through exciting means). It is important to note that there must be relevance and use (this reinforces the principle of meaning and passion) for the knowledge and skills taught. The lesser the amount we use, immediately, the least the motivation to learn.

Recently, I was reminded that in some under developed countries, how youths were called upon to lead. Eg. a 15-yr-old daughter of a senior pastor preached powerfully to more than a 15,000 -strong crowd; an 18-yr-old lady in China could be leading more than 10,000 members in an underground churches.

What is my point?
Youths are the Leaders TODAY!
Engage THEM!

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Stepping Stones 2007

I have taken some time to think through how I would like to write this online book. Below is a possible framework which I feel will allow me to adequately share my thoughts and experiences on Youth Leaders. I guess, you could take it as the content page of this online book!

While I will be following closely to this format, this is a work-in-progress and hence your feedback and sharing of experiences will add to this book in a very precious and valuable way. I hope those of you who read my posts will take some time to contribute your thoughts in the comments section. I would really love to hear from you. Along the way, if there is a particular topic that you would like me to share and write about, feel free to let me know. I will try to work it in or even dedicate one more chapter to it, if enough of you feel strongly about it.

Lastly, I must apologise if the Chapters do not get posted on a regular basis. While this is something that I am putting my heart and soul in, I also have other commitments at work, family, ministy etc. What I can do however, is to set up a mailing list for those of you would like to be updated when I post a new chapter. Click on Mailing List under the Categories column and post your email in the comments section. I will get back to you asap.

I hope my sharing will bless you indefinitely and spur you on in your journey as a christian Youth Worker/ Youth Leader in the ministry that God has led you to.

CONTENTS FOR STEPPING STONES

Intro
1 Why stepping stones;
2 Why youth work?
3 Youth – leaders of today!
4 History of Youth work – from incidental to intentional to integration

Youth workers
5 Youth worker is king-maker!
6 What really matters to the youth & youth development?
a. Research on adult leaders who has been impacted by youth ministry
b. Chronos study – why youth are where they are?
c. Felt needs and real needs
7 The challenging 20s, the restless 30s, the giving 40s, the covering of the 50/60s.
a. Challenging 20s; conflict of values
b. Restless 30s; esp upper 30s because of the need to exercise faith, experimenting ideas, exerting authority
c. Giving 40s; desire to give back to the next generation, need to create an environment for growth for the teens to 20s to 30s. guard the truth and provide foundation. Nurturing
d. Covering of the 50/60s; providing umbrella for the next generation to try new things

Encouraging
8 Parents and Youthworkers – parents connnect

The Bigger Picture
9 Evangelising Youth – a Singapore story
10 I HAVE A DREAM!

Why Youth Work?

A preacher challenged a graduating class, "There is still room in the list of spiritual giants (like that of DL Moody, George Whitefield...) for the kingdom of God." 1 young man responded to that challenge. He was then 22 yrs old. Years later, Billy Graham became one of God's finest evangelist in the last century.

What is my point?

God delights in using youths for the expansion of His kingdom!

WHY are we reaching the youth generation (13-25); is this a ministry of convenience or conviction? Some might say it is convenient because working with people in this age group brings forth the easiest results. Others might say it is convenient because we have many leaders in this age group. Still others will say it is convenient because many of our church members are in this age-group. The truth is, if you serve out of convenience, you will produce people of negligence - people who neglect the cost of following Jesus, neglect living a pure life, neglect living out the many essential biblical principles as Christians.

If you serve out of convenience, you will hardly make an impact. Take for example, ministering among the military community. Several para-churches started off with serving the military community but changed their course after seeing more results among the campuses. Today, we no longer have any para-churches serving the military with the exception of MCF - Military Christian Fellowship.

The church of God is never formed out of convenience of Conviction.
When you serve out of conviction, you can win NATIONS for the Lord.

"The World has yet to see a man fully consecrated to him - a man of conviction." DL Moody, a revivalist at the end of 18th century, resolved to be that man and by the end of 3 yrs, he brought England, Scotland and Ireland to their knees.

The church needs people of conviction not convenience. As a pastor, I have learnt that I would rather have 50 leaders whose hearts are set for God than 1,000 who serve out of convenience and therefore whose lives never made any significant impact in the world.

WHAT SHOULD OUR OUR CONVICTIONS BE THEN?

I would like to share with you my own convictions which I have formed through understanding what the Word of God says about our service to Him. These have been the driving force in my own journey of serving God's as a youth pastor. However, it is one thing to know, yet another to own these convictions for your own life. It is my prayer that as I share, God will impress upon you a similar passion/conviction for this work.

(PRAY)

Whenever we read the Great Commission, we often are guilty of the Great Omission - mentally, by and large as a church, we left out the children and the youth, in our stategy in building the church .

Unfortunately, because this age range is between the YOUTH and adults, it is often left unaccounted for in many churches.
In military term, it is similar to the "NO MAN"S LAND". A space between 2 group of forces that no one owns. Yet, often in military operation, it is in this NO-MAN's LAND that decisive battle are fought and won.
I believe it is the same in the spiritual realm, where spiritual battle are found. If we, the church could maximise the potential in this age-group, we could establish a significant stronghold in the spiritual climate of the nation.
Let me share with you 5 beliefs that ungirded our conviction in this ministry.

1. Transitional people group with great potential

1.1 Transition needs = coping with special needs
They will face problems that people not in these situations will not or hardly face. eg Choice of courses, studies, boy-girl relationship (see slide), greater sense of self-awareness (who am i? who do i want to be? or to be seen as?). Hence, a need to have a specific focus to meet their needs.

1.2 Transition period = more open and receptive to the gospel due to change
Billy Graham crusades recorded that 95% of the decision are below the age of 25 - the most responsive group of people to the gospel fall with the age-group of 18-25yr old. (that incl. ,most of you here). And because they are more receptive to the issue of faith in this period, especially in colleges, we must take advantage of these period, otherwise the world would. (see slide)
1 example can be seen in the Japan Doomsday Cult group; the team that developed the gas, that was used to poison the train station, was all graduates and some were recent graduates. There is an uprise of evangelistic fervor also targeting this people group from other faith. Muslim and buddhism.
This period is also vital to the cultivation of values. If we could harnass and develop them properly during this period, they would pass out of the ministry as an effective witnesses and labourers for the Lord.

2. Effective for outreach
(3 reasons why it is better to group them together for outreach purpose)

2.1 Clear defined boundary; well-contained within a set perimeter
(restricted access areas)

2.2 Clear defined target
Apart from proximity, their needs are quite similar.

2.3 Maximise the common needs and interest
The geographical district outreach plan will be relatively too generally and that the needs of these special people may be overlooked. And also this age-group people has more energy and availability for activities that the working and married people may not have. (major moving exercise for a retreat vs just a bag).

3. Responsibility of the Church (not just the para-Church)
Especially in campus environment; the responsibility towards our sheep cannot be handled over to someone else when you could be in the position of influence (not like when they go overseas; even that it is still possible). i think it is time for the church to take direct responsibilty for its people. i am not playing down the role of para-church, but awaking the bride of Christ to the task assigned by God to us. For us, to ensure that the college students come to church even during exam time, we, as well as the lay supervisors, would work on catering a public transport to transport them to and fro church; even when it is about 18miles apart.

4. Continuity and Integration
it is easier when you have been operating under the same structure. there is much similarity under the same leadership within the church framework and unlike transfering from a parachurch to church.

5. The youth sector is one of the major keys in winning the nations for Jesus Christ
(not the only one, but 1 of the major key in winning the nation)

There are 5 majors centres that influence the nations. They are as follow:
Government Centres;
Commercial Centres;
Communication Centres (mass media)
Spiritual Centres (churches and others)
Educational Centres

The educational centres include all the schools and colleges in the nation. Important to note, most of the graduates of the campus or colleges will move up the corporate ladder in these other centres. So, if we are able to reach them during their student days, indirectly or directly, we are influencing the nations. The values we impart to these people will shape the value system of the nation and even for our next generations too.)

With these 5 beliefs about this age group, we know that our labour among them would not be in vain. There are times of testing and trials, diappointment and let-down, releasing people you have groomed and developed, losing a part of you every year, etc - is not an easy experience.
BUT, we could continue because I know God is in this with me. And we, by the grace of God, are in the process of constructing the church for the 21st century., building great pastors and missionaries of tomorrow, discipling the christian leaders for the church of the next century. Come and join us in this extraordinary venture - life will never be the same again!
(sermon preached June 13 1996)

Intro to Stepping Stones

Do you know who helped Billy Graham to discover his gifting in preaching? Who helped Benny Hinn to move in the supernatural healing gifts of God? Who was instrumental in shaping the life of Mother Theresa?

The three Christian servants are well known for their service to humanity. Billy Graham preached to millions and saw great numbers of salvations. He was used by God to stir up faith within the body of Christ to believe in evangelism. Benny Hinn preached salvation and healing. Many wonderful miracles were released in his meetings. He was an inspiration to many in the healing power of God. Mother Theresa was an icon of Christian love. When the world looked for an icon for love, they turned to the wrinkled face of Mother Theresa. She was well known to the whole world as a nun who served the poorest of the poor, those whose lives were least valued.

While these are the servants of God, I wonder if you have ever paused to think of the many who obeyed the prompting of God, and came to inspire them, to guide them, to affirm them, to correct them, to release them into God’s wonderful destiny for their lives. These are the unsung heroes of God in His kingdom. These are the many who served not in limelight but simply for His delight. These are the unknown faces of the multitudes, some who are now among the many witnesses in heaven cheering us on, some who are still here on earth, motivating us on to finish our race heavenward in Christ.

These, are God’s “Stepping Stones”.

They came to serve God by lifting us up on a higher plane so that we could see God and reach out for His destiny in our lives. They are happy just to be that step which we could step on to reach our higher destination. They are not known, not remembered, not around when we reach the next level. They could be our primary school teachers, our Sunday school teachers, our seniors, our parents and most definitely our youth pastors!

To many, the term “Stepping stones” is not a nice description to describe people who have mattered in our lives. It gives a negative connotation that they have been used for our selfish gain. But yet in a sense, every mentor, disciple-maker, youth worker ARE Stepping Stones. They came and allowed us to step on them to reach our highest potential (not selfish gain).

As I turn 40, after serving God for more than 14yrs in full-time ministry as a pastor, I feel it is time to pen down my thoughts to thank the many stepping stones of God in my life as well as those in the lives of many of you out there. They deserve our appreciation!

time to revamp my blog

i have been travelling a lot this past months.
i have been passing my article to be posted at MOLMAN.blogspot.com rather than here.

But soon...i will want to start a new series here just on this blog. it would be a book i hoped to publish when i was younger. it would be about my reflection on my last 20years on youthwork. i have entitled the book "Stepping Stones". And instead of publishing it on paper, i think blog would be the more suitable media for this new generation of youth and youth worker.

It is my intention to bless the youthworker of old and new about the challenges and blessings of youthwork.

Should you know someone who is a youthworker, you can invite him on my behalf to come and share this journey with me.
Intro
1 Why stepping stones;
a humble call to youth work; forgettable group of workers among church team. Youth worker does not retire they just fade away.
Youth Ministry
2 Why youth work? U
nique grace; openness to gospel, Holy Spirit and readiness for radical commitment. They are leaders of tomorrow but what kind?
3 Youth – leaders of today!
4 History of Youth work –
from incidental to intentional to integration
Youth workers
5 Youth worker is king-maker!
6 What really matters to the youth & youth development?
a. Research on adult leaders who has been impacted by youth ministry
b. Chronos study – why youth are where they are?
c. Felt needs and real needs
7 The challenging 20s, the restless 30s, the giving 40s, the covering of the 50/60s.
a. Challenging 20s; conflict of values
b. Restless 30s; esp upper 30s because of the need to exercise faith, experimenting ideas, exerting authority
c. Giving 40s; desire to give back to the next generation, need to create an environment for growth for the teens to 20s to 30s. guard the truth and provide foundation. Nurturing
d. Covering of the 50/60s; providing umbrella for the next generation to try new things, Encouraging
8 Parents and Youthworkers – parentsconnnect
The Bigger Picture
9 Evangelising Youth – a Singapore story
10 I HAVE A DREAM!

i will expand on all these in the coming months....please feel free to share your thoughts with me and other fellow youthworkers/stepping stones.